Today, we will discuss about harsh realities and bitter truths of life. We need to understand and accept them. Sooner we do that, earlier we get control of our lives.
When we build a wise spirit, we can handle any stressful situation.
In fact, handling any cruel and stressful situation calmly, is actually a sign of mentally wise person.
What do we need to develop a wise personality?
Here is list of few things below, they are not everything, but if you understand them and start following them regularly, I think, you will feel a real change in yourself.
1. No one is too busy as not to answer you
A guy or girl most likely doesn’t respond to your message, it’s not because they are too busy.
A potential employer has not been calling back for a day already, it’s not because of the fact that he can’t find a single free minute.
If you do not receive a response from someone, it's because they deliberately do not want to answer you.
If someone keeps silence and never responds to you, it doesn’t mean that he had not responded. “Silence” is also a response.
And the earlier you stop to find excuses for people who do not pay proper attention to you, the sooner you will be able to deal with them and handle the situations efficiently.
2. Each and every person puts his “own interests” above everything, above everyone. Always. Without Exceptions.
No matter how sincere, kind or caring a person is, he will always be more interested in his “own problems” than in yours.
Most people take as much as you allow them to take away.
So try to identify and maintain the maximum permissible limits, and do not allow someone to simply sit on your neck.
Strong people are not afraid to say the word "No" to what they do not want to do, because they know that no one will intercede for them if they do not stand for themselves.
3. You can never please everyone.
If you listened to everything that every person ever wanted from you, then you would have long ago become a lifeless, shapeless and feelingless.
And then someone would come and advise you to become more interesting again.
Seriously, it's impossible to please everyone.
There is always someone who says that you are living the wrong way or choosing the wrong path.
You will be criticised regardless of what you do, so just do what you love. Because the only judge you should listen to is yourself.
4. The world absolutely owes you nothing
You can be the coolest, kindest, smartest, most interesting person in the world, but if you do not work on yourself and develop, all these wonderful qualities will remain in your imagination.
There are two options: you can spend your entire life regretting yourself, because you deserve more, or you can start acting and taking everything from life right now.
5. Stop finding justifications for yourselves
You can spend your whole life lamenting that you do not have the time, money, strength or resources to achieve your goals.
And everything that you say may be true, but the harsh truth is that every person on the planet has at least one damn good excuse not to move towards the life that he wants.
People, who get what they want from life, ignore their excuses.
They find ways to overcome their limitations, instead of lamenting them, that's the reason for their victories.
6. You are characterised by your actions, not thoughts
You can sit home all day, drawing a better world in your imagination, but until you get out and start doing something, it does not matter.
The ability to build big plans is a wonderful thing, but until it is accompanied by actions, it is useless.
In the end, we can be judged by our actions, not by our thoughts.
7. No one will come and save you from your own life
We all want to believe that the person of our dreams, the ideal work or an incredible surprise are waiting around the corner.
When we are unhappy with our situation, we irrationally hope that a magician will miraculously appear and save us from all problems.
But the truth is that does not happen in life. The problems are not solved by the magic wand, and if you want to see the changes in life, you must work on them yourself.
This is known to the strongest people. When hard times come, they put on armour, climb a horse and save themselves. Because they understand: there’s no one to help them other than they themselves.
I can continue adding more and more points and the answer will be the 50 pages long. I can understand that you are all busy people and don’t have enough time to read it.
In the end, I would like to say that we are always attracted to those who never give a damn f@ck to us.
It means, if you mind your own business, develop yourself as a strong and wise personality and excel in your race of life and stop expecting things from others, the whole world will be attracted to you.
What do you want? Run after those who give a damn shit to you? or want to be chased by others?
All the best!
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